A sermon for Duke of Sussex from priest who preached to him at Eton: Harry, you must give up being the victim - and forgive from the heart

A clergyman who spoke from the pulpit to Prince Harry astatine Eton has urged him to shed the 'role of victimhood' successful a sermon she has written to assistance him flooded his 'grief and confusion', MailOnline tin reveal.

Angela Tilby, who attended the ceremonial of his parent Princess Diana, believes the Duke of Sussex, 40, has warned him that his ain actions person 'worsened his alienation from his family'.

'I grieve for that ginger-topped teen I erstwhile preached to', she said, adding: 'I judge that helium is simply a decent man. But, truthful far, helium has recovered nary mode to power disconnected the trauma successful his head'.

Revd Tilby has written a portion for the Church Times entitled: 'A sermon that Prince Harry should heed'.

She has urged him to travel Christ's teachings to 'forgive from your heart', saying it tin assistance him find 'liberation'.

The Church of England clergyman claims that Harry's determination to springiness a BBC interrogation to blasted an 'establishment stitch-up' for his Court of Appeal defeat, 'sounds arsenic though it comes from the 12-year-old who was required to locomotion down his mother’s coffin'.

Revd Tilby besides questioned whether helium has genuinely forgiven his family, arsenic helium claimed to the BBC.

She wrote: 'He has said excessively overmuch for relationships to heal. He claims to person forgiven his begetter and the Royal Family; but it is intelligibly a qualified forgiveness.

'What helium mightiness person picked up from attending greeting work successful Eton chapel was that forgiveness involves not lone making bid with the offender, but, yet and astatine large cost, giving up the relation of victimhood. The second is acold harder, acold much demanding, and, successful the end, acold much important.

'The logic of the Christian religion suggests that it is lone erstwhile victims forgive “from the heart” that they that they themselves tin find liberation'. 

Angela Tilby, who is Canon Emeritus of Christ Church Cathedral, Oxford and Honorary Chaplain astatine Portsmouth Cathedral, said she was invited to preach astatine Eton College in 2002.

She wrote: 'I recognised the ginger apical of Prince Harry, who appeared to beryllium immersed successful amused speech with his neighbour, which made maine smile. 

'Five years earlier, I had been contiguous astatine the ceremonial of Diana, Princess of Wales, and heard Earl Spencer berate the Royal Family for its attraction of Diana and promise to support her 2 sons.

'Harry, with William, volition person heard each that. He would besides person heard the question of applause from the crowds extracurricular surge done the Abbey congregation. He whitethorn person felt, arsenic galore of america did connected that day, arsenic though a gyration was imminent.

'Yet the infinitesimal passed. Years intervened. Harry had his teenage follies and his archetypal emotion affairs'. 

Revd Angela Tilby says she believes that immoderate of the disapproval helium and Meghan person received has been 'cruel and vulgar'.

She besides said it is bittersweet that helium feels helium 'will ne'er consciousness harmless capable to bring his household to Britain, adjacent though it is his homeland'.

But determination are signs that helium is struggling to shingle the grief and victimhood helium felt arsenic a child, she suggested. 

'His book, Spare, worsened his alienation from his family. He has seen his African foundation autumn isolated amid acrimony. His BBC interrogation past week, successful which helium said that his information concerns had been dismissed by “a bully aged Establishment stitch-up”, uncover his ongoing grief and confusion', she wrote.

'The repeated request for constabulary protection, and the insistence that his begetter could simply benignant this retired by ordering it, sounds arsenic though it comes from the 12-year-old who was required to locomotion down his mother’s coffin'.

Speaking to the BBC aft helium mislaid a tribunal entreaty implicit his information arrangements connected May 2, the Duke of Sussex launched a blistering onslaught connected the King.

He complained that his begetter 'won't talk to him' and that helium doesn't cognize 'how overmuch longer helium has left'. 

Prince Harry besides revealed helium volition not bring his woman oregon children backmost to the UK - and said helium had had 'so galore disagreements' with his family, immoderate of whom 'may ne'er forgive' him for penning a book. 

The comments connected King Charles's wellness are thought successful peculiar to person raised eyebrows down palace doors - fixed his attraction for cancer remains ongoing. 

Former BBC royal analogous Jennie Bond said: 'I fishy that Harry said much than helium had possibly intended due to the fact that helium was consumed with choler that the tribunal determination had gone against him. 

'When the tribunal ruling didn't spell his way, helium was, successful his ain words 'gutted and devastated'. 

'And helium was intelligibly seething with fury. And that is seldom the champion clip to aerial your thoughts.'

She added that she thinks Harry has present mislaid the enactment of the 'majority of the British public'. 

The Duke had been pursuing a lawsuit done the British courts aft his level of information changed erstwhile helium and Meghan stepped down arsenic moving royals. 

Howeve, Sir Geoffrey Vos, the Master of the Rolls, told Prince Harry his 'grievance' implicit downgraded information had not 'translated into a ineligible argument'.

And helium ruled the archetypal information determination had been a 'predictable' and adjacent 'sensible' absorption to Megxit – erstwhile Harry and Meghan stepped backmost from being elder royals and near Britain.

The Duke, who claimed to beryllium the unfortunate of an 'establishment stitch-up', has present been enactment connected the hook to wage £1.5million successful ineligible costs aft losing the lawsuit 10 days ago.